Why I Do What I Do
Let’s start with why I’m not doing it. I’m not doing this because anyone is forcing me to; I’m not feeding a habit; I’m not in debt; I’m not incapable of doing any other type of work; I’m not a rampant sex addict who can’t get enough… pretty much every preconceived idea of why a woman might become a sex worker… I’m not.
I’m doing this because I want to enjoy my work. I used to have a ‘respectable’ 9 to 5 job and I grew to hate it. So I decided I wasn’t going to do that anymore, I wasn’t going to spend the next 35 years unhappy for 8 hours a day, 5 days a week - I would find something I love to do, and do that. I went through my options, which turned out to be going back to college and retraining, or using my existing skills and strengths. I had no idea what I’d want to retrain as, so that was a dead end. And my existing skills? Well I like people, I like sex, and I have big boobs… perfect qualifications for the adult industry!
So here I am – a nice lady who’s an escort, a prostitute, a whore. I told myself on my very first appointment, that if I didn’t enjoy it, I wasn’t going to do it again. Of course I did enjoy it, and I’m still enjoying it six years later. And so I plan to continue, until I retire, or I no longer love what I do, then I’ll do something else…